📕Part 1 奠定基础 Laying Your Foundation

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We’re about to offer a framework and tools for building a nonmonogamous foundation. We hope these tools will benefit you even if you ultimately decide not to pursue nonmonogamy. We start by helping you explore whether nonmonogamy is really for you and by discussing some of the assumptions many people need to unpack when they’re newly discovering nonmonogamy. Next we dig into values and ethics, including the importance of having a clear ethical system when you’re engaging in nonmonogamy. This is where we set out the axioms that shape our overall approach in this book. Finally, we discuss the difficult topic of abuse: what it is, how it can show up in nonmonogamy, and some of the ways you can deal with it if it arises in your own relationships or those of the people in your circles.

我们即将提供构建非单偶制基础的框架和工具。我们希望这些工具能让你受益，即使你最终决定不追求非单偶制。我们首先帮助你探索非单偶制是否真的适合你，并讨论许多人在初次接触非单偶制时需要拆解的一些假设。接下来，我们将深入探讨价值观和伦理，包括在进行非单偶制时拥有清晰伦理体系的重要性。在这里，我们将列出塑造本书整体方法的公理。最后，我们讨论关于虐待这一沉重话题：它是什么，它如何在非单偶制中出现，以及如果在你自己的关系或你圈子里的人的关系中出现这种情况，你可以采取哪些应对方法。